What to do if CPS (or DSS or DYFS) Contacts You

What to do if CPS (or DSS or DYFS) Contacts You

What should you do if Child Protective Services contacts you with allegations you know to be false? In some states this is referred to as CPS, in others, it is DSS or DYFS but it’s still the same type of organization. In the midst of my divorce, my ex has made...
Applying Pressure to Mental Health

Applying Pressure to Mental Health

I think we all need to be aware that mental health by-and-large misses this very real form of child abuse and that we must take action to educate and hold these professionals accountable for their actions. With the Attachment-Based Parental Alienation (AB-PA)...
The End-Run Nuclear Option

The End-Run Nuclear Option

  In my post from a month ago, He Denied Their Motion, I made the comment that my ex failed to have my child’s father completely removed from their life. I was a bit premature. The story goes on from there, unfortunately. My ex succeeded in doing an end-run...
Putting Out The Fire With Gasoline

Putting Out The Fire With Gasoline

“Feel my blood enraged It’s just the fear of losing you Don’t you know my name Well, you been so longAnd I’ve been putting out the fire with gasoline”—David Bowie There is no doubt that losing or being threatened with the loss of a child...